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Greylisting Explained—and How Lero Detects It

Greylisting is a silent inbox killer. Learn how it works, how it affects your cold outreach, and how Lero detects it in real time.

Javier Gil

🤔 What Is Greylisting?

Greylisting is an anti-spam technique used by mail servers that temporarily reject incoming messages from unknown senders.

  • • On first contact, the server returns a temporary error (like 451 4.7.1 Try again later)
  • • Legitimate senders usually retry after a short delay
  • • Spammers often don't retry—so the message gets blocked

TL;DR: If your sending server doesn't retry properly, you won't land in inboxes—even with clean lists.

⚠️ Why Greylisting Matters for Cold Email

ImpactExplanation
⏳ Delayed deliveryCan cause several minutes (or hours) of delay if retry isn't well-configured
❌ Silent failuresYou may think the email was sent, but it was actually never accepted
📉 Bounce classificationBad verifiers may mark a greylisted address as invalid (false negative)
🔥 Domain warming killersIn early-stage cold outreach, greylisting ruins ramp-up sequences

💡 Common Signs of Greylisting

• Delivery logs show a temporary SMTP 4xx error

• Email eventually delivers after retry, but with a delay

• Bounce reports mention "retry later" or "greylisted"

💡 Pro tip: These signs often go unnoticed until you experience poor deliverability despite having "clean" email lists.

🛠️ How Lero Handles Greylisting (vs. Basic Verifiers)

Most cheap email verifiers treat any temporary error as a failed check. Lero doesn't.

FeatureCheap VerifiersLero
Retry detection✅ Waits + retries
SMTP response interpretation❌ Generic fail✅ Greylisting-specific logic
Classification accuracy⚠️ High false negatives✅ Accurate "Retry-OK" state
Retry delay simulation❌ None✅ Simulates proper behavior

By understanding greylisting signals, Lero avoids false bounces and gives you a true deliverability picture.

🧬 Technical Deep Dive (Optional)

Greylisting is typically implemented with a triplet memory:

  • IP of sender
  • Envelope sender (MAIL FROM)
  • Recipient address (RCPT TO)

If a combination is new, the server returns a 4xx and expects a retry within a set window. After that, the address is "whitelisted" for some time.

Developer note: This is why single-shot SMTP verification often fails with greylisted servers—they need time and a retry to respond accurately.

✅ What to Do If You're Affected

Ensure retry logic is enabled in your mail server or ESP

• Avoid sending too many new contacts in one burst (warm-up gradually)

• Monitor SMTP responses in your delivery logs

✅ Do This

  • • Set retry intervals (15 min, 1 hr, 4 hrs)
  • • Use reputable ESPs with good retry logic
  • • Monitor 4xx response patterns

❌ Avoid This

  • • Giving up after first 4xx error
  • • Marking greylisted emails as invalid
  • • Blast sending without warmup

🔍 How to Test for Greylisting

Send test emails with tools like:

Mail Tester

• SMTP debug logs in your ESP

• Use Lero to simulate and classify the response properly

Example SMTP Greylisting Response:

451 4.7.1 Greylisting in action, please come back later
450 4.7.1 Try again later
421 4.2.1 Service not available - temporary delay

These are temporary errors (4xx) that should trigger a retry, not a permanent failure.

📦 TL;DR

ConceptWhat It MeansWhy It Matters
GreylistingTemporary 4xx rejection of first emailCan delay or block cold emails
Good behaviorESP retries later and succeedsNeeded for inboxing
Lero's edgeDetects & handles greylisting cleanlyAvoids false invalid flags

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❓ Frequently Asked Questions

Q1: How long does greylisting typically last?

Usually 15 minutes to 24 hours, depending on the server configuration. Most servers allow retry after 15-30 minutes.

Q2: Does greylisting affect my sender reputation?

No, greylisting is a normal part of email delivery. Proper retry behavior actually improves your reputation.

Q3: Can I bypass greylisting?

Not directly, but you can minimize its impact by warming up your domain and using reputable sending infrastructure.

Q4: How does Lero detect greylisting vs. real bounces?

Lero analyzes SMTP response codes, timing patterns, and retry behavior to distinguish temporary greylisting from permanent failures.

Q5: Which email providers use greylisting most?

Many corporate email servers and smaller ISPs use greylisting. Large providers like Gmail typically use other anti-spam methods.

🎯 Don't Let Greylisting Kill Your Cold Outreach

Lero's advanced SMTP detection accurately handles greylisting, giving you reliable validation results for your cold email campaigns.

JG

Javier Gil

Founder & CEO

Serial entrepreneur with 10+ years in email technology and deliverability. Previously built and scaled email infrastructure for enterprise clients.

Expertise:

Email DeliverabilityAPI ArchitectureStartup GrowthData Privacy

Written by Javier GilFounder & CEO at Lero

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